There have been a few times in my life when I have been so internally uncomfortable that I have hastily left an event without much explanation.
I can recall a few awkward parties and family get-togethers when my anxiety grew so enormous that I just had to leave… Generally, I do not enjoy trying to qualify my experience with other humans. Therefore, I like to utilize an Irish goodbye as I sneak out the door without saying a word… Unblessedly, it turns out that this is not something you can get away with when you are dating somebody. The other week I went to stay with my current guy for the first time… And found myself so uncomfortable with the environment of his property that I had to leave quickly. When I first walked into his location I noticed that the air temperature was a bit chilly for me. I thought that I would adjust to his control component settings with time so I didn’t make a big deal over the air temperature at first. Surely, my body would adjust to his lower indoor air temperature control settings and my buddy and I could proceed with our planned activities. However, the longer I stayed at his location the colder the indoor air seemed to be. I could not tell if he even had his furnace running because the indoor weather conditions was so uncomfortable. I didn’t want to question his control component programming or his indoor air temperature preferences, so I just kept my mouth shut. After a few hours of shivering in his site, I could not take it anymore. I hastily left for the comfort of my own heating and cooling system at home. I’ve got to tell you, I’m not sure if I have a guy anymore… But at least I am enjoying my own furnace again.